Friday, June 26, 2009

MeetingMillionaires.com - How To Date a Millionaire Man

Meeting Millionaires
Lots of articles on wealthy dating sites tell you how to meet a single male millionaire; but what about how to keep him? Remember, you're going to have some competition - it's not like he'd have trouble replacing you when he has access to the same wealthy dating site he met you on! That's kind of an insecure place to be, of course, but following these tips can help you make your position a little more anchored.

First and most importantly, make time for him. This means scheduling. Millionaires are busy - how is he supposed to have all that wealth if he doesn't stay busy earning it? So when the time comes for together time, make sure you're not off absorbed in something else. Better to greet him at the door, ready for fun. Hey, he's worth it anyway, right?

Be more attentive to his needs. This is trickier than it sounds; some women don't realize that they're imposing their idea of what the man wants onto him. Listen and really understand what he wants. Sometimes what he wants is to do things for you - well, men have a nurturing instinct, too, who'd have thought? But whatever the case, he will have a lot less leisure time to spend than you do, so when you're together you'd better make that some very high-quality time.

Keep yourself in shape. Your companion will frequently be off managing his empire; you shouldn't be filling these stretches of free time plopped on the couch with a box of bon-bons watching soaps. Exercise, diet, and stay active, and it wouldn't hurt to read a book every now and then in order to keep a healthy mind in a healthy body. And if you need cosmetic surgery or the occasional spa treatment, don't be shy about asking for one. Millionaire men won't flinch at paying for your upkeep, if the result is a more beautiful woman to please him even more!

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Be playful! Millionaires are almost always workaholics. Try to balance out his natural, powerful drive for success by reminding him of the fun parts of life. You should be spontaneous, ready to go off on adventures, and always with enthusiasm for romance. Expect to pry that PDA out of his hands while unbuttoning his shirt at least a couple of times. He'll love it!

At the same time, be understanding when work is important to him. Millionaires get where they are because they have passion, drive, and ambition. When he's talking about the worries he has over his business, sometimes it's just to vent and you're one of the few people he can freely share this with. The pressures of the board room and stock floor will weigh heavily on the shoulders of a tycoon; so when he's particularly agitated about a business matter, that's the time to be understanding and not get in the way.

All of this may sound like you're expected to be pretty submissive. And you're right! There's nothing shameful about allowing your partner to take charge and direct the relationship; in fact, millionaires are often better at directing the relationship than anyone else. try to see it as letting the best person for the job do it.

Your Dating Coach
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Thursday, March 26, 2009

EliteMeeting.com - Meeting the best available

Instead of using the general dating sites, I recommend using elite dating sites if you want to find a good match or a romantic partner. There is nothing worse than spending hours searching online, only to find that the profiles of the men or women you were interested in were false.

This is very common on unregulated, general dating sites. However, elite dating sites are much more high quality and screen the people that post their profiles. Not only can you find much higher quality people, but also your time is not wasted. You can finally discover a special person to share your time with.

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Friday, February 13, 2009

Seven Tips For Drawing Your Date Into a Conversation

There's a great scene in Monty Python's 'The Meaning of Life' where a couple go to a restaurant that serves not food, but conversations. They order one and get a set of cue-cards, which start them off, but soon they go off into their own territory. Oh, if it were only that easy! Well, we're going to try to do the same thing.

Here is a list of ideas to get the flow of talk going between you and your date, whether in person or online.


#1. Ask about work.
Just about everybody works, and anybody with a full-time job spends about one-third of their lives doing it. So a lot is going on, there. Asking your date about their work is the perfect opportunity for them to vent about co-workers they don't get along with, or enthuse about the things they like about their career choice, and so on. In addition, you're bound to encounter some odd facts you didn't know. Every job, no matter how boring it sounds, has something interesting about it that only the people who work there know about.

#2. Tell a story about your pets.
Either that, or ask about your date's pets. Two partners who each have a cat will automatically fill the next two hours with their top five funny cat moments. And people who have owned various pets throughout their lives never run out of stories.

#3. Trade funny experiences.
Everybody has a flat tire story, or a bicycle accident story, or the one about the time a bat got in the house. Whatever it is, if it's not too unusual, chances are your date will have another one to share after that. It's fun, gets you laughing, and it inspires a sense of camaraderie.

#4. Talk about dreams.
At first, this seems to be getting 'too close, too soon'. The land of our inner mind in the realm of the subconscious which we visit only in slumber seems too private, too deep. But actually, there are people who feel at ease talking about their dreams, particularly if something funny happened. Of course, anybody hearing the story will jump on the chance to psychoanalyze you. Take it lightly and treat it like a game; entertain the silliest ideas. It's easy and fun, and inspires intimacy.

#5. Ask about fantasies.
Now we're talking intimate! One way to kindle a sexual spark is to ask what fantasies your date has so far not fulfilled, but would like to. Everybody has heard of one kink they'd like to try, or a setting that sounds fun, or an experience where they tried a romantic bubble bath and it all went wrong when they hopped in and the tub overflowed or they got a ticket for trying to have sex on the beach.

#6. Share a news story.
Back in 'first date' territory, the Internet and the omnipresence of mobile devices gives us the perfect set-up for discussing current events. Mention a story that you know impacts the other person. If you know they support a political party, mention the last story you heard about how the candidate from that party is doing. Or if you know what company they work for, you can mention the last news story you read about that industry. This being the 21st century, it's almost impossible to not find news on some subject, no matter how much of a niche it's in.

#7. Describe a movie you've seen or book you've read.
This can be either a recommendation or a critical review. Saying what you like or didn't like about it tells a little bit about your tastes and preferences. It's also your chance to show how well you can summarize a plot or describe a character. This works best with fans of a certain genre of fiction; some of the most fun time you ever spent in company is when somebody describes The Rocky Horror Picture Show to you if you've never heard of it before!

Dating Coach

Thursday, June 26, 2008

What Kind of Man Qualifies as a Sugardaddy?

"Sugardaddy" is a word that comes to us all the way from the early 20th century - the "Roaring 20s", the flapper era, and the dawn of the industrial era, when men were rapidly rising to the rank of millionaire in the space of a few years. The recent return of the popularity of this term has led to an increased interest in dating sugardaddies.

In short, a sugardaddy is an independently wealthy single man. A related term is "playboy", signifying the carefree lifestyle you're shooting for. But not just anyone will do! Typically, a man is considered of sugardaddy status if he meets all of the following conditions:

1. Huge wealth. - Anybody on the Forbes list of world-class billionaires for a start, but that's only 500 people worldwide. For anybody aged 40 or over, he has to at least be a millionaire, and for younger than 40 he has to be taking in at least six figures per year.
2. Lavish spender. - There are no sugardaddies in condominiums or driving old Toyotas. Think more along the lines of a custom-built mansion, a collection of high-end sports cars, and a few eccentricities such as a pet llama or a ski lift on the mansion premises.
3. Power. - He has to either have owned or founded a major corporation or be the CEO of one, or be in a position of political power. That could mean being the heir to a middle-Eastern prince, being a Governor, being a Prime Minister, and so on.
4. Lots of leisure time. - All that vast wealth doesn't count for much if he has to work like a dog for it. A prime sugardaddy can afford to hop off to the Caribbean for the week on the spur of the moment.

Along with all of the above, sugardaddies tend to have one or more of the following characteristics, though it's not required:

1. Mature. - Typical age range is 50+.
2. Old money. - Nothing says "sugardaddy" like the nephew of an oil tycoon. Men in this class aren't wealthy all by themselves, but have a family which is also wealthy.
3. Roots in technology. - Computers and the related industries have put more men on the Forbes 500 list than any other industry in history. Any CEO of a major tech company with a symbol on the stock tickers is a likely candidate.
4. Panache. - You just can't call a man a sugardaddy when he's this dull, boring guy who doesn't like to spend his money. Look for a little bit of a show-off.
5. Social. - They have reserved tables at the finest restaurants, the clerks at the highest-end store in town know them by name, they've been the guest on a few talk shows, they get interviewed by the newspapers regularly, and they're a familiar face to the public. There are usually no shut-ins in this category.

Oh, one more thing - all of the above doesn't do you a lick of good if he's just not that into you! So above all, he must be interested in dating younger women. The "daddy" part is no joke. All sugardaddy relationships will usually run to December-May romances.

That being said, sometimes it's all about being a beautiful piece of arm-candy to show up at the Oscars with. Many of these types of relationships really do comprise of nothing but simple companionship. This might be for traveling, or escort to events, or just plain everyday friendship. Don't go into it with the assumption that there will be sex or even a close relationship involved, although don't rule it out, either.

Your Dating Coach

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Meet models - Find beautiful people to date in a few clicks

Most matchmaking websites are not targeted to any group of people. Many men only want to meet models. They want to find beautiful women who are intelligent, fun and successful. You are unlikely to find such women on most regular dating sites.

The best way to find and date models is to go to a meet models website. This caters for men just like you. They screen the women that are allowed to post their profiles, so that everything is real and accurate. This means that you stop wasting time and start meeting high quality women that you can form a bond with.

ModelMeet.com

Thursday, April 10, 2008

The Scary Corners of the Dating World

Even though this blog is about dating, and we think dating is great, we have to admit that there are times when dating doesn't even seem like it's happening inside the human species any more. If you're feeling down today, take a look at this bumper crop of the Twilight Zone of dating we've found, and take solace in the fact that no matter how bad off you are, you aren't in this bad a shape yet.

Video-dating losers - A whole clip of compiled video dates from the 1970s or so. For those who like to get down and party. Please, girls, do not lose control of yourselves when you behold these steaming hunks of man-tank!

Clown Dating - See, be glad you're not a clown. Think how hard they have it. It doesn't get any scarier than dating a clown.

Vampire Dating - Well, OK, maybe it does. I'm going to stop writing about this entry, because the puns are just too tempting. It would be bloody annoying if I succumbed to them. It would suck. I'd be really bitten by the pun bug and I'd just go batty.

A homeless mans scams 7 millionaires - It's great that they caught him, but really, weren't they kind of asking for it? Let's start a website exclusively for millionaires to meet strangers. What could possibly go wrong there?

Troll Dating - We Warned you. but don't they look cute together?


Your Dating Coach

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Six Mistakes Men Make in Their Online Dating Profile

This time we'll address it just for the gentlemen. It's your turn, mates. Here, straight from several surveys of hundreds of women, are the top things in your personals website page that turns women off.

#1. Being a Playboy.
Oh, Captain Cabana is here to see us! What's new in the life of a shagadelic gigolo? Are you still setting their pants on fire? No? Actually, you say you're running out of coconut oil, you sprained a pectoral flexing your chest, and still nobody's called? Hmmm. You know how lack of self-esteem is a turn-off in women? Well, too much self-esteem is just as much of a turn-off in men. Women have all heard roosters crowing before, and they're sick of them.

#2. Nude or partially undressed in your photo.
Oh, God, put that thing away! Put some clothes on. All the way on. Just like you'd dress for work. Unlike men, women are not stimulated in the least, tiny bit by the sight of naked flesh on a stranger. Of any part. And posting one, particular part of your anatomy just tells women that you think that's all they want, which tells them first that you don't value any other part of yourself, and second that you know nothing about women.

#3. Bad first impression.
This is another thing that's hard for a guy to conceive of, but women read deep into the kinds of things that men would just breeze right by without noticing. So think about how your name looks when they're browsing the list of names looking for the next profile to click on. Names like 'HotRod4U', 'HellDeathLord', and 'DirtyHarry69' make great gag names on a forum or neat account names in a MMORPG, but on a dating site they work on women like Raid does on roaches.

#4. All work, no play.
That's good, you told us your career. OK, that's nice that you have a college degree. Wait, no need to go into how long you interned! Oh no, are you going to list every job? Isn't there anything here about what you do outside of work? Are you your job? Oh, look, now you're posting three references and a letter of recommendation. We give up - it sounds like you're too busy with a career to pay any attention to a girlfriend.

#5. Being too picky about looks.
You want somebody who's this tall and weighs this much and is this old? Let's get out the measuring tape... Nope, we're a quarter of a centimeter under the minimum height requirement, and we're a half a gram overweight - darn that extra celery stick we had at lunch! Men see this and think 'Well, that's a ballpark figure.' There are no ballpark figures in a woman's world. You either are or you aren't. Which means that your ideal woman will only come to you if you have a factory build you one.

#6. Mistaking a stack of pick-up lines for a profile.
Oh no, I have to write a profile! Let's pop open Google and type 'top ten pick-up lines'... enter... OK, click, here, control-C, control-V. Whew! That was hard work. And lines like 'I'm a thief, and I'm here to steal your heart.' are probably something she's never heard before. I mean, most women have probably never seen that movie!

Your Dating Coach